Tuesday, 12 May 2009

• Hmmm...listen up!!!

  Opinions on women….do I? Don’t I?

   

  Probably one of the most serious posts I have done to date as most of my posts albeit some truth in them, have been written with some kind of humour to get my point across…anyways….listen up….

   

   

  Have you ever heard of the proverb "Nice guys finish last?" There is an element of truth to it. Thats what most guys problems are. We try to be too nice. If we give a girl too much attention she'll pick up on that and it won't be a challenge for her anymore. Don't give her too many compliments or gifts because you are only going to raise her expectation level. The key is to be a little cocky and a little funny. Women can also sense desperation so don't try the direct approach. I would rather try to be a girls friend first and listen to what she says and catch her off guard with one of her interests as a surprise.

   

  Be a bit mysterious and nonchalant

  I just think believe in your self.
  And any girl would be lucky to have you.
  Trust me in the end girls get bored with that whole bad guy thing and realise that a good man is what they need.
  So just keep being your self and you'll find the right girl for you

   

  Don’t pretend to be something you are not, you are what you are, and girls will eventually see that.

   

  As a man, I cannot speak for women. But I would like to comment.

  I think that a better question is 'what can I do to be more attractive

  to women'. (If you really want to be able to predict who will be considered

  more attractive by some group of women, then you can stop reading now).

   

  If you want to be more attractive to women, I think the first thing you

  have to realise is that you only make small changes in yourself. You

  can't make yourself taller, shorter or change your basic personality.

  Don't waste time worrying about things you can't change.

   

  Another important point is that people pay more attention to

  attitude and personality than to appearance. You should try to

  be well groomed and keep in shape, of course. But if you are going

  to make a good impression, you are going to have to do it by projecting

  your personality, not by looking good.

   

  You want women to be interested in you, not impressed. You might get

  some attention by doing something impressive, but usually this

  attention is short-lived.  The most effective way to get someone

  interested in you is to show an interest in them. If you adopt an

  attitude that is accepting and open, and show that you are interested

  in the other person (by asking questions, and paying attention to her

  answers), you will seem very interesting.  Avoid speaking negatively.

  When someone hears you say negative things, they unconsciously fear

  that you will speak of them negatively. Try to get her to speak about

  herself. People have a great need to express themselves, and everyone

  needs someone to listen to them.

   

  Paying attention to someone and being a good listener will help make

  the other person interested in you, but if that is all you

  do, you will be taken for granted. To keep this from happening, you

  need to demonstrate some independence. Show that you have a life of

  your own. While you should keep the focus on her, when she talks about

  something in her life, you can briefly mention something in your life

  that is similar. If you do a variety of things in your life, it should

  be easy to appear independent. On the other hand, if you act like you

  are never too busy to drop everything to see her, and that as far as

  you are concerned there are no other women in the world, you will

  be seen as dependent. Dependency is unattractive.

   

   

  It all leads to the one thing that i firmly believe myself included has to put into practice….

   

  Confidence with women in general - beautiful, plain, smart, nice, mean, old, young - every kind of woman - is an unavoidable social skill which can and must be learned if what you want is the greatest intimate relationship of your life

   

  Peace out

   

  Irish….

   

   

   

   

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